Will I be able to ‘come out’ of hypnosis?
Yes. You are completely in control and can bring yourself out of hypnotherapy if you really want to at any point during the session, simply by opening your eyes.
Will I reveal any deep secrets and tell you stuff that I don’t want to tell anyone, or give you my PIN number to my bank card?
No. You are in complete control. If you wouldn’t normally tell a person you’ve just met your PIN number then you won’t tell your hypnotherapist as your subconscious mind won’t go against your normal rules of behaviour, morals or ethics.
Could you make me do something I don’t want to do, like they do in those TV shows – will I start singing like Elvis every time I hear the word Tea?
That is stage hypnosis, and the people you see on the stage will have gone through a vigorous assessment before you see them on the screen. Your therapist can’t make you do anything you wouldn’t normally do with someone you’ve just met.
I haven’t told anyone I’m having hypnotherapy and I want to keep it secret – is it completely confidential?
As a professionally qualified hypnotherapist I work within a strict code of practice, equal to that of a GP, which ensures complete discretion and confidentiality. Even if I saw you in the street and recognised you, I wouldn’t acknowledge you outside of the consultation room, unless you choose to acknowledge me.
Will I be asleep, or unconscious?
You will feel very relaxed and still aware of what is going on around you, however all of that just makes you feel even more relaxed. You could open your eyes at any time, but you won’t want to as it feels so good to leave them closed during our session. It is a similar to how you feel when you are in a lovely relaxed state when you start to wake up after a deep, refreshing sleep. You are aware of everything around you and that you are awake, but you want to stay relaxed, comfortable and keep your eyes closed for a while.
What does hypnosis feel like? Will anything weird happen to me?
Most of my clients describe it as feeling really relaxed. Some feel tingly in their hands, some feel heavy and sinking into the chair, some feel light as a cloud. Some of my clients say that they don’t feel anything. You may be aware of sounds in the room, or outside, but that helps you feel even more relaxed. Or you may not be aware of anything other than my voice. Whatever you feel is perfect for you. Everyone has a different, individual experience when hypnotised.